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This sounds so much like my first phone call I think you were eavesdropping!!



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I tried really hard to say to myself.... this is what I was asking for. A message. To say he is back. His voice. That's all. But I guess I was hoping for a little more

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Damn if this isn't what I was thinking. I have three theories. 1. Maybe those of us who have object constancy issues, don't have the capacity to ask for what we need because we haven't experienced getting or keeping what we need and 2. T wants you to express your needs and 3. T's are not good at staying connected either and they drift off during vacation and come back impersonal and disconnected.

You'll just have to call again and leave a better message, modeling for him how it is done effectively. Like, %#@&#! you you idiot!

Peace & Love....