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Originally Posted by Jaybird57
Can't you believe in the other side of the coin yourself? Therapy CAN BE helpful and healing for some. But the only people who can decide that are the one's who experience that for themselves. I have found myself hurt by statements made about people who experience therapy as helpful as delusional or fooling themselves.
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If people say therapy helped them, sure I believe it. My sense though is that most of the help was not because of therapy, but in spite of it. I think therapy, as it is set up, is quite perverse and abnormal and dangerous, and yet could help in some cases where the two people involved manage to escape the system's million pitfalls and its unfounded theories and methods. Maybe what helped was just having someone supportive and understanding to talk to. That to me is not an argument in favor of therapy as an institution. It suggests, in my admittedly insignificant opinion, that therapy is mainly a better-than-nothing proposition. Not a judgement, as I have been in that place of need, and still am.
The other thing I wonder about is how much of therapy's benefit is palliative. Does the benefit go away or lessen when you withdraw the treatment?