Hello twistedangel00: If you try to just act as if nothing happened, it will be the proverbial 800 pound gorilla in the room. Personally I don't see a therapist. I've tried a few in the past but was unimpressed. So perhaps I'm not the best person to reply to your post. But, from my perspective, I think you must clear the air, as the saying goes, before you can move forward. Good luck!