Yay for telling him what you need! Twice per week, that's awesome.

So were you comfortable talking about the sex stuff with him? I pretty much want to die whenever I feel there is even a .32334 percent chance that sex might come up in session.

Actually in our last session, he decided to mention sex like five minutes before the session ended. I was talking about my relationship with my husband and how the inner child often interferes wit my interactions... and T decides to interject something to the effect of "Yeah, so that might even make sex difficult." And I'm like, "Ummmm... yeah.... do you really feel the need to bring that up at this point in the session?" And he said, "Sorry... that was a therapist's doorknob" (Because when a patient brings something important up right at the very end of the session-- as I often do-- it's called the doorknob theory-- drop the bomb, put your hand on the doorknob and get the hell out of there).

I had a dream with T in it a week before he left. I am a firm believer in dream work especially if T shows up in the dream.... I mean, you can't get better material than that. But so far I have held back in telling him because in the dream he was him dating my friend's mom and she just kept telling me that they were soulmates and I was feeling very upset and jealous. So of course I haven't told him yet for fear of sex stuff/erotic transference stuff coming up.