Zehmzaziel,

Thank you for the noble work that you do. Around 90% of my social interaction is with my wife and her mother, and the two of them are smarter than I am, stronger than I am, caring, unselfish, and talented and accomplished in technologies ranging from the remounting of 300-year old paintings to the sweating of copper pipe. My mother died ten years ago, but she was a badass too, a writer who lifted weights. You would (have) like(d) and respect(ed) all three. You've just been meeting and working with the wrong women. Warmest regards.