We discussed the obvious ones that pertain to one of my issues (romantiv, sexual boundaries) but not much about out of session contact until I started texting him all these
texts non stop and he told me that it needed to stop because it was putting him in distress. I stopped texting him altogether and of course felt very hurt about the whole thing but also understood. A few months later he texted me and we started texting again. On new years eve he told me through a text that it was getting a bit much again bc I was getting upset I'd he didn't respond. He said it doesn't mean he doesn't care. I just said ok and felt really crappy. When I saw him next he apologized for telling me that through a text and he should have talked to me in person. I am still somewhat fearful one day he will take it away again but I have gotten better about not expecting responses and he did tell me it is still ok to text him.
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