Diglucy - she knows I've read their conversations. I'm sure she doesn't show me everything, but most things. And when he calls, she usually tells me what he's said to her.

So an update on the current situation - I hadn't messaged her all day yesterday, which was extremely difficult, but it worked.

She video called me last night and said she had been thinking about everything. She felt absolutely awful, she was in tears, she said she hates this weekend and regrets so many things. I've never seen her like this.

I told her that after this weekend is done, I'm willing to put this all behind us and move on if she is willing to show more commitment and never allow something like this to happen again. I said this is her one and only second chance because I'm not going to be some fool who keeps forgiving her immature behavior.

So we left off the conversation with me telling her to try to at least enjoy the wedding tonight (which she is at right at this very moment) because there's nothing further we can do to work on things right now, she spent all the money to get there, so she may as well go and try to have a good time and we'll talk about everything some more when she actually gets home on Monday.

There's only one last final issue I'm still not 100% content with. I found out during our conversation yesterday that a bunch of her old friends had booked a rental house for the night just down the road from the reception. I completely believe her and trust it was a last minute invite. She had mentioned to someone yesterday that she was planning to drive back to her relative's house afterwards, and then this person suggested that she should just stay with everyone. The relative's house where she is staying is about a 45min drive, and it would be very late and she'd be alone. So in one way, I think it is a good idea to just stay and spend the night.

However, she told me the Ex will be also staying in this house, since again - it's all mutual friends. Apparently he cancelled his original hotel booking when all these friends mentioned the rental house. She swore to me that she would have as minimal contact with him as possible tonight, and if he makes any kind of move she will immediately shut it down. She just wants to be with her friends since she hasn't seen some of them in years and she might not see them again for another long period. I told her that while I'm still not perfectly comfortable with it, this is a way for her to really prove herself. If anything does happen tonight, I'm absolutely done. 100%. I made sure she perfectly understood this.

So right now I'm enjoying a beer, not going on Facebook, distancing myself from the situation for the night and just hoping we can finish sorting this on Monday.