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Mar 19, 2016, 04:58 PM
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Member Since: Nov 2013
Location: Australia
Posts: 28,349
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There's no abandonment of the kids - we both love them dearly.
They're at my place 4 nights a week and his place 3 nights a week.
We both legally own the house. He wants to sell - I don't. His mixed messages are starting to infuriate me. He's said for the last month, since he moved out, that he doesn't want to sell. Now since Friday he's been on and on about selling.
Technically if it goes to court (which I don't think will be a very easy process and will be quite an expensive one at that) they can force us to sell ... but in the interim he can't do anything without my consent, and he continues to pay 50% of the mortgage.
On a teacher's salary I won't be able to afford a 3 bedroom place so that my kids can stay with me 4 nights a week. At least not in my area and my kids school has a catchment zone where you have to reside in as it's a well sought after school, meaning my kids would have to change schools and I don't want that 
*sigh*
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