Hi Crazy Hitch,

Hopefully it's more a matter that he hasn't thought the selling completely through/truly recognised the impact of the consequences........at least to the kids!!
And you say he does love the kids dearly............
So I'm sure you can fill him in on those consequences e.g. disruption in their education, being away from their friends, having even more upheaval at a time that might be really hard for them plus another loss.............
I'm not sure he'll really listen straight away, but if you can put those thoughts out there to him, even in something he can look back/reflect on e.g. a letter or email.........???
But in that interim period of him deciding...........then he can't do anything currently.
I don't know whether you need to get a lawyer for the "maybe"'s, but regardless maybe try to focus more so (not at all easy I know, sorry!!!) on yourself and your kids, this hasn't long ago happened and I'm sure there's plenty more tough stuff about all this you're having to handle right now
You will know more about where to go from here practically, with a lawyer or in time.
Although we are here for you

Alison