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Originally Posted by Crazy Hitch
Thanks Frankbtl ... *sigh* ... I drove past his place for no other reason than to see if her car was there. And I don't even know what the point of that was since I'd never have gotten out the car if I did see it there!!!
Can't stop thinking of him ... and yet I know I shouldn't.
How do you just "turn off" love?
Feeling so many different emotions right now.
Emotional investment, yes, this was the person I was supposed to wake up next to every single day for the rest of my life, for richer, for poorer, in sickness, and in health, til death us do part.
Yes, my kids are priceless.
Just drowning.....
drowning....
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It is hard to turn off love. The key word that was used was "investment." If you invest in something, you are interested in the development and the prosperity that goes along with investing in something.
It is hard to turn love off because you made that promise however many years prior to, love and cherish, through thick and thin.
And because love is hard to turn off you are now left with an investment that you will never be able to enjoy or withdraw from in time of emotional support.
I wish you the best, and I am truly sorry that you are going through this.
Take care