In sessions, I'd find myself staring at his hands....keeping an eye on them. If they moved, I'd panic. The poor guy admitted to feeling self-conscious about moving them. For a while he tried not to move them, and then at some point we talked about it again, and he said he HAS to move them and I needed to work on it from my end. I did. It was hard. On bad days I still followed them with my eyes, but generally I was OK.

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