I'm so sorry, Cinnamon! I didn't realize you'd been seeing her for so many years. That's crummy for her to leave now, I think. I've left several Ts in a positive way, but it was a gradual tapering off, which you unfortunately won't be able to do. I would suggest discussing what you've learned from therapy in all those years, and what is left unfinished. You still have time to work on unfinished business. I would ask any questions I had, and say anything I wanted to, before termination. I gave my former Ts cards that I made as a good-bye gift. One of them gave me a book, and one gave me a hug after 6 years! After 12 years, I would want to give my T a present, and would for sure hope that she would remain in contact via email.

I also think it's important for you to discuss your feelings about her terminating you in this way. I understand your pain. If my T of 6 years suddenly announced she's changing jobs, I would be very, very sad.