I was given this book, ironically, as a wedding gift. Never actually used it with my ex husband. For giggles, took the quiz in my last relationship.

As I mentioned in OP's other thread Quality Time was Primary. Affirmation/Touch tied as secondary.

Seems a valient attempt to try to display an effort. But isn't this the same wife that makes disparaging remarks about your being in therapy, anyways? What more can you do?

My cousin and his wife gave me the book. Gosh their oldest has either just started college or is on her way. My cousins wife admitted that having regular dinners growing up could be hit or miss depending on what beverage sat on the counter. She recognizes her own equivalent golfers handicap in relationships and they just work at it and communicate and have a higher sense of purpose. 5 languages is just one tool in their marriage.