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Originally Posted by unaluna
This is very basic but not easy psychodynamic and attachment stuff, from winnicott and john watsisname mobley marley stg like that. Can mummy survive baby's anger / independence? Its very scary for the baby. I was afraid to decrease my appointments - would he still be there? Its not a matter of tell or dont tell - its trying to figure out what it means to you.
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The above is helpful. What it means to me? T loves me even when I mess up, maybe? Maybe that I want to be punished? That my usual theme, not wanting to be left out, is at play here? I do think it's SOMETHING! Maybe shame or guilt. Wanting to be more intimate with T?
I have trouble deciding what fits for me, and that's frustrating!