Thank you all so much. The blackmail thing is a big worry to me, because I can't tell you all enough just how bad he has been these past couple of months. There were days when he would actually send her about a dozen messages saying "please call me, I really need you, you're the only person I can talk to" and then he would leave voice notes where he would be crying, so she would give in and answer his call - only for him to cheer right up and be laughing and sharing old memories. Like it's been said earlier in the thread, I should have really spoken up when it first started to annoy me. I let it slide for too long.

I'll let you all know what happens tomorrow when we talk about everything. To be honest, a part of me still feels like something happened between them at some point. I spoke to her briefly again this morning, and she just seems kind of 'off' - I just know her and she seemed different, she wasn't saying much, almost like a guilty vibe. There's a chance she's going to tell me something tomorrow that I don't want to hear. But I'm prepared to deal with it.