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She seems to think that she does therapy in one single way and that she doesnīt have to put any certain effort in. As if itīs enough that I enter her office and sits there and thatīs the relationship.
I feel as she seems to think of therapy as something else than a relationship.
she seems to think that her way of doing therapy is a way that works even if she notices Iīm irritated with her.
She also seems to think her cold way of being has a purpose of its own and should be followed through at any cost.
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Did she tell you all this? i wonder what she said to you and/or how she acted that allowed you to reach these conclusions?
I'm sorry you are having such a hard time trying to find a therapist.
I do think that relationships often take time. it isn't exactly automatic-like when i meet people, sometimes i feel connected right away, which i think can be transference at times; other times, my feelings grow for someone only after I've gotten to know them.