Yes, she said the thing about the relationship is taken for granted. As she does so little to show warmth and because sheīs inconsistent Iīve come to these conclusions about her and her attitude towards clients and therapy. I donīt think she wants to make an extra effort.
I agree a relationship must have time to grow but when you begin to feel aversion towards a T, I donīt know if thatīs repairable?
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Originally Posted by ex vivo
Did she tell you all this? i wonder what she said to you and/or how she acted that allowed you to reach these conclusions?
I'm sorry you are having such a hard time trying to find a therapist.
I do think that relationships often take time. it isn't exactly automatic-like when i meet people, sometimes i feel connected right away, which i think can be transference at times; other times, my feelings grow for someone only after I've gotten to know them.
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