Heh, we can screw up later in sobriety too haha. Just the other day, I called my sponsor over a problem with the woman I'm sponsoring, and she told me to hang up and write an inventory and call her back. She hasn't had to that in a loooong time lol.

Oh Chalm, just so you know what I'm talking about lol, an inventory is what we're taught to write when we're full of anger and resentment. It narrows down the cause of the anger, so that we know what to work on. I never had any way of doing this until I started on the steps. And I still do these things, even over 2 years into sobriety. Without a sponsor, I wouldn't do it and then I'd be miserable all the time.