have you ever been on any any anxiety medication?
i didn't have any luck with buspar... nor did any of the antidepressants help my anxiety..
the only thing that helped was the klonopin for me but thats a benzodiazepine and some people are iffy about them... i think they are wonderful though

they help slow down thoughts thoughts that are out of control...
only thing is they really arent so good for longer term treatment because you do build a tolerance eventually... i mean i have heard of some people not building a tolerance but i dunno how they did it