There's a middle ground you know, one where you aren't single and aren't forcing yourself into a relationship. If you try to shoehorn yourself into a relationship it's not going to lead anywhere. On the other hand, if you let one develop naturally where you both enjoy being around each other and both contribute, then it can be a great thing.

So what I'm saying is stay single as long as you have to force yourself. When it doesn't require that, then it's a good start to a relationship.