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... If it is causing you this much distress, what they ask, what you feel you need to do, then it just isn't the right thing for you, is it?

Step back and reevaluate, please. ... It does no good to destroy things that help you deal with life, with what you like to do, that might change your attitude and ability to cope in the future.

At the very least, reconsider that such conflict might be trying to tell you there is someone else you can help, maybe, instead of this one.

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I think this bears repeating. It's from another thread that you started, WW.