Hmmmm I may be the only guy on here...I hope thats alright with everyone. My wife and I ....well my soon-to-be-ex-wife and I are getting divorced. We are remaining friends. Its just life got in the way of us being together. We did not have children so thats good. We separated a year ago and now November 5th is the court date. Even though I know this divorce is right it was still hard after I signed the paper. Infact that day we had even spent time at the local Barns & Noble just talking....we seem to be able to talk more now on a truthful level then we ever did when together. She has met someone else and is all excited. And to be honest I am happy for her. I really am. Its just signing the papers made me feel like such a loser. sigh.....this is my second divorce....the first wife decided she was a lesbian. Its not true.....the second time hurts just as much....actually to me even worse. Signing the papers was a significant day for me. I came home drank some wine coolers....and went to bed early.

Ok not sure where I am going with all this just wanted to say Hi to everyone and join the forum here.

Tobey