You have a profound misunderstanding of human nature. Just look at the bloody history of humanity. Of course it doesn't matter for you, because you don't want to see what contradicts your subjective view. You're the one who needs to provide evidence. Your subjective view of yourself and others is not reliable. People convince themselves of things. It doesn't mean they are true. People just learn to behave well. They aren't naturally behaving well. This is an illusion people create to feel good may be about themselves.