IDK if meaning well means anything to a girl who will be sent back into a war zone to maybe be kidnapped by ISIS or die in a bomb raid.

I seriously CAN'T let that happen no matter if it is "possible" or not to save her. No, I'm not a particularly good friend, but people who would just shrug a situation like that off and go on with their own life is a dang psychopath! Not even a bad friend.