Tell me about it...I really don't fit the bill of the generic alpha male type.
I've never been shy about my feelings really, I can be a very emotional person and my friends know that when they've seen me at my worst.

I've had girls lose interest in me before for not being as confident or as assertive as they wanted me to be.

I'm not ashamed of that though, It's what makes us uniquely human, a taboo of guys not allowed to have the very emotions that makes us what we are is reeeally dumb.

Guess it does go back to those primal days really, girl looking for a suitable mate, they don't want the man who's not gonna sit there and wallow because he's not good enough NOOOO They want the big strong man who's gonna go hunt a lion down with his bare hands.

Roots on this one are preeeetty deep.