"Why do you care?" has been my fly in the ointment, so to speak. I need to know my T cares, but it seems more important for me to know 'why' s/he cares. As with the former question, there's always the chance any or all of us would get a rehearsed response. Just curious...I've not seen this question posted here and would be interested in whether or not others wonder 'why' their T cares (if they profess that they do care, of course).