I have never asked that question. I admit I have been swimming around the idea of asking her, but I think I know the answer.

On several occasions during our sessions, I would be talking about a problem and I can see that she cares. The most recent happened in our last session when I got semi off topic and went off on something that has been bothering me for years. As she was listening, her face fell and she told me she was hurting for me. I know she cares about me even if she hasn't said it.