Dear Lord, if I was in his shoes, I SOOO wouldn't be able to look at myself in the glass anymore. He doesn't realise all the luck he has to have such an extraordinary girlfriend such as you, I'd do so much just to be in his shoes. Where are you, girls?? All the girls I meet in real life want me for my money and it's not really furfilling... :/ If I relly was in his shoes, I'd work and I'd pay for the rent and I wouldn't game so much. Jokes aside, he clearly has a gaming problem. It has become an addiction and this is an issue that must be looked at otherwise he will never change and you will always endure/pay for his destructive behavior. I say give him some chances to get help, if he doesn't do anything, give him an ultimatum and if there's no hope, leave him. It's sad it had to come to this, it's tough what I'm proposing you to do but it has to be done, otherwise you won't wouldn't be posting on these forums. So sad guys can get awesome girlfriends and don't even realise it, so sad.