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Originally Posted by Argonautomobile
I'm sorry you're having this trouble. I've been there, and it sucks. I wish I had some useful suggestion, but I've never found any way around this other than going 'meta'--talking about the difficulty as explicitly and specifically as possible--or just capitulating to T's view of the situation.
I hope you find a solution that works for you.
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I agree, that you have to talk about the difficulty/misunderstanding, as hard as it may be. I've gone through some misunderstandings (including one very recently) with both my T and marriage counselor, and discussing it with them--in person and via e-mail--over the course of a few weeks ultimately ended up strengthening the relationship and improving the therapy. Though there was definitely some pain and anxiety in there until things were resolved.
Sending an e-mail, if your T allows it, could be helpful. I tend to express myself better in writing, and an e-mail lets you get all the thoughts out there at once. Hope it all works out for you!
