I think some in the caring professions had good intentions. Wanted to care. I think it's not a given. Like theres an awful lot of uncaring nurses.
I know my T cares because I've felt it. It's not something that can be feigned. Another question is What do we mean about care? I had a very immature idea of what 'caring' should look like. It was a rather codependent vision. I've learnt a healthier notion of what caring looks like because of T.