For me, it's never a question of whether someone is emotional or not. It's not about those things that would make me annoyed. it's what they do when emotional. Behavior matters to me more than anything and I would guess most people. You can be emotional and not be one to get out of control. heck you can be an unemotional person and be out of control sometimes. Really people that annoy me are ones that when they are not coping well, lean on me more than themselves. I can't do for you things that you have to learn to do for yourself so after a time if someone keeps doing that to me, expecting support, it gets tiresome.