Hello, I am sorry you are having such a hard time with your mom. You are correct about the delusions. It is proper you want some support for yourself and some help for her. I think having someone we care about in mental distress is understandably upsetting and stressful. You deserve to be listened to ... and comforted. Your mom may benefit from an evaluation to set her up with meds to help her manage her illness. I do not think she will get better without some intervention from outside resources. Meds will not magically fix anyone but they can help stabilize people enough to get them back on track... your mom needs help from a professional. You are a great daughter and mental illness is tough to handle for all family members. It is okay to need some encouragment for yourself also. Peace.