Hello babymonkey: The Skeezyks prefers not to offer suggestions. But if he were going to try to cultivate some new friendships, what he would do is to become involved in some social / volunteer activities that would be of interest. Not everyone you'd be likely to meet is going to become a friend. But getting to know people with whom you share common interests might be where you would be the most likely to find people with whom you could establish friendships. At least this is how it appears to me...