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Old Mar 22, 2016, 03:00 PM
SarahSweden SarahSweden is offline
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I completely agree with you and when it comes to personality or chemistry issues I think itīs hard to find a good way of working together if the chemistry isnīt there.

I think a T should have a certain kind of spectrum in their way of behaving towards a client, for example having the ability to act with more warmth with a client who needs that approach and perhaps in a more distant way with a client who needs that.

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Originally Posted by BudFox View Post
Therapists are paid to serve the needs of the client. If the therapist is acting in ways that are unhelpful to the client, then perhaps they do need to change. Therapists are not supposed to be themselves, they are supposed to help the client. They can be themselves on their own time.

Or if they cannot change or if it's just a bad match, then the client can fire them, but then that does put Sarah in a bind in this case.
Thanks for this!
BudFox, Out There