I have no experience, I have never wondered too much but I am new to all this. Maybe you are trying to even up a very one sided relationship? She knows a lot about you and you probably don't know much about her. Is that a bad thing? Probably not. How would it help? Maybe you would feel more free to share even more? Just some thoughts. Seems positive though that she still wants to help even though she is going away. Hugs to you.