We are all animals, we are humans.
I believe men & woman all have an emotional portfolio.

Communication is key to understanding another, being a good listener, and sometimes people just don't understand that for some woman/cry need to cry/talk and be comforted by a hug. An embrace releasing negative emotions of sadness & suffering goes a long way. Its also about energy finding the right person to share with.

The one thing a guy/girl hates to see their other cry, ... They were never taught how to fix tears.

One of many things a woman/man hate to see their partner getting upset when trying to communicate...

The evolution of emotions/feelings and the ability to share in a non /defensive way or non confrontational way, we are far more familiar to the baseline raw emotions (energy) than what we really need as individuals.
Before entering into a relationship get to know a person.