That's hard.. I have been in therapy at various times in my life.. I have problems trusting, which makes sharing information w a therapist very hard. I've been seeing various therapists for the past 9 yrs just to meet the requirements. just dealing with surface stuff. NEver making any real progress. I ended up with a new therapist in Oct. and within 2 sessions knew this was someone, who I could trust and build a relationship with. I have work thru more issues in the past 6 months, than I have in the past 15yrs... For some of us a relationship is important. He knows and understand what is really important to me. He also is making sure that I am advocating for myself and that I am being heard. I hope you can figure out how to make your situation work or figure out how to find someone else to work with..