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Originally Posted by Mygrandjourney
Are you out of the loop, financially, etc? How do the discussions between you and your husband go when this comes up?
You might want to come up with some sort of agreement with your husband to protect yourself, both emotionally and financially, should your stepson continue drinking/using/driving, etc. It can get very expensive for families unless they set limits.
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When DH and I discuss, he says it isn't his problem, SS22 is and adult and its his problem. He says I worry too much.
We agree that he gets no money from us. We did not and will not bail him out, pay his fines, etc. So I don't worry about it financially. I am just so heartsick with disappointment because I thought he was getting his act together. He is barely making it financially as it is, his mother pays a large amount of his expenses each month, his GF who hasn't worked for the 2 yrs they have lived together just got a job 3 days ago. And now this, in TX he will automatically lose his license for 6 mths, and the most important thing in his life is his car and driving, so that is going to throw him for a loop. I don't know how it works, his first offense was in VA and this one in TX so I don't know if this charge will be a 1st or 2nd, but if he has to do any jail time, he loses his job. Then what? I am just very worried about him.