so sorry you are struggling so much... and your bf as well.. to be stuck in a job you hate sucks... is there anyway you can console him so he can survive the job for a litle while - while he looks elsewhere for work? does he really hate his job or do you think maybe he's having some depression too thats making hm feel like that?

its been like.. 6 days since you got the meds?
still need to buy time.. it sucks so bad i know... ive been taking the wellbutrin SR since sometime in january and its really not doing anything... but all of the antidepressants i have tried haven't really done anything for my depression.. dont know why...
i used to think it was because of my past drug use - maybe i messed my brain up.. or maybe the wellbutrin is trying to help the ADHD and not the depression... but even then, the celexa, zoloft, cymbalta didnt help either... and i was taking zoloft with the wellbutrin, then switched from zoloft to cymbalta with the wellbutrin...

can try combining ssri/snri with the wellbutrin if you dont have negative effects from wellbutrin and dont see improvement... but honestly i just dont like ADs...

of course it takes time for the "effect" to start.. but dont let my case make you think that wellbutrin wont help you because its still early for you and you just need to try to get through a couple more weeks - and if it doesnt start helping you have the follow up soon and can hopefully add something (if thats what you want to do..)

im not a huge fan of antipsychotics but they can help... for me they worked better than the ADs... but i was on ADs and APs..
just avoid the zyprexa it may be really good for some people, it may even help you really really good, but i went from 130lbs to 190... now im 170... (im 5'10) but thats just because i lost 5lbs last month from not eating a few days... also i read that if you smoke tobacco the nicotine mitigates some of the zyprexa drug absorption...

i didnt have any weight issues on seroquel... it just makes you sleep when you take it...
i think the seroquel helped though... i've heard alot about abilify and interested in trying it but im just worried about that movement disorder thing...

i was interested in latuda because it claims to be pro-cognitive...

i was on cymbalta, wellbutrin, trazodone, zyprexa, seroquel, depakote, couple others i cant remember atm... when they put me on the trilafon... i really couldnt tell any difference... i think i had so many drugs in my body that it didnt matter what they gave me... but maybe you could look into the trilafon too..
the only ones i had bad effects with was the lithium, depakote, zyprexa... by the time i was on all them meds i had been on the seroquel (600mg) for like a year so i was having insomnia again... they were trying to knock me out so i could sleep but when i did sleep i had nightmares so i guess thats why they gave me trilafon...

i dont know much about any other meds... but what i do is i just research them, look lists of medications up and check them out... look up stories from others.. see what it helped them with and stuff... it helps pass time and you are educating yourself on some things that might be able to help you... just dont obsess on it like i do

hang in there...

edit:
by the way... have you had your thyroid levels tested lately?
could be an thyroid hormone imbalance causing some of these symptoms..?