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Originally Posted by TishaBuv
Hi Melanie,
I'd suggest you talk to him and ask him if he plans to outgrow the drinking at the bar phase and be a better partner.
For the record, my husband is pretty similar in how he didn't do much with our kids, did certain things around the house with resentment, and although was not out drinking, was tuned out on the TV and Internet.
I would advise you to not get pregnant with another baby with him any time soon, as to not get yourself further trapped.
My life progressed so ideally, got engaged, married, then pregnant with no struggle. So, it's hard to tell if how you went about things had any effect.
Do you love him? Do you see a future with him if he would act more loving and responsible?
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Yes, absolutely. If he tells me where he is when it's late and is honest about it and if he shows interest in moving towards more responsible habits, I would be very happy... but he's extremely defensive whenever I try to talk to him about staying out late and such. He turns the argument around by telling me that he's paying for everything, in order to hurt my feelings.
I want us to be together. That's my goal. I'm just beginning to worry that it's unattainable and I don't want to be unhappy any longer if my patience is pointless (if nothing changes).
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