Wow, that's... horrible. Honestly, I don't know what she was thinking. What are the credentials for this therapist? In what she specialize? Maybe she is simply not trained to deal with you and doesn't mean she is trying to hurt you or is incompetent, but it also means that you don't need to keep the therapy is you feel is not working. My therapist, who has helped me a lot, only told me 3 days ago that he believes that I have OCD (which my psychiatrist told me in 2012) and while the therapy he gave me three years ago helped me, it was incomplete and while he was going to treat me, that if I wanted he could find therapist specialized in OCD to treat me.

He has over a decade of work, a master degree in behavioral therapy and helped me with my Anxiety/Depression before and he still told me that if I wanted somebody else more qualified, I should go for it.

Maybe that would help in your case? How did you find her?