Can she see you? Maybe you aren't there and she only thinks she can see you. After all her eyes are only in her head, not to mention vision takes place only in her head.

I know she was just trying to be helpful but geez some should know better. They think such comments are harmless but for a person with depression they are not.

Just remember... That stupid suggestion originated somewhere...somewhere... oh yea, only in her head.

Sorry you are having such a tough time. I guess it is true that it really is impossible for someone who doesn't experience this to understand. But we here, we understand. Hope you are feeling better.