Any tips? How did you do it? Did you have any guiding principles, such as 50/50? Or split somehow based on the % of each person's income? Is it somehow linked to how much time the kids spend with each parent? Or what?

For those of you who received or gave spousal maintenance (alimony) as part of your settlement, how did you like that? In retrospect, do you wish you had done it differently?

We are entering this phase of our divorce and I would like to hear your ideas on how to divide things up. Since we are doing collaborative divorce, many solutions are possible. I just need to know some options, since I've never done this before (and hope to never do it again!).