Hello LLK06: Welcome to PsychCentral... from the Skeezyks!

May you find the time you spend here to be of benefit.

From what you wrote, it sounds to me as though some thorough neuro-psych testing is in order... (& possibly that MRI too if your physician feels it would still be appropriate.) I hope you can prevail upon your parents to help you make arrangements for this.
Beyond that, you know, depression is an illness. You don't have to have a certain number of problems to qualify. From what you wrote, I would I would say you're doing extremely well considering how difficult your entry into this world was. This should be celebrated!

I send good thoughts your way with the hope that you will be able to achieve all of those goals & dreams you wrote of.