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Old Mar 23, 2016, 10:25 PM
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So in late December/early January I posted here about driving past my T's house three times while she was on vacation. Well I did it again a couple nights ago. I never told my T that I had done it before, but now I feel guilty for doing it again. She was in town this time too, so it feels more intrusive. I don't think I'm going to tell her, because I couldn't deal with it if this made her stop seeing me. But I just feel really bad about doing it. Do you think it's bad that I did it or that I'm bad for doing it? I don't intend to stalk her, and I would never want to hurt her or make her uncomfortable or invade her privacy. I just wanted to drive past her house to see what it looks like and to feel closer to her somehow. I feel like in a way it's not that bad. It's just driving on a public road past a house. But at the same time, it's in a neighborhood that's out of my way and I'm going out of my way just to drive past it. I just feel guilty and don't know what to do about it.
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