I have been trying to talk with my little girl on my own, I haven't seen my T in a week now, long story.

I don't want to go to deep right now, for fear of putting myself I can't get out of with no help IRL right now. But I did give her a way out of our room, that isn't through the abusers rooms. She has been in there for so long and no way for her to leave unless she walked through 2 of my brothers rooms. I don't even know if this is the right thing to do, it feels it. I have been reading online about helping my inner child, today I will go and buy some books on it. I know I need to do this for her/me, and right now I don't feel like I have the support behind be other then this board and my support board on another site.

Would any of you continue without a T available to you at this moment??? Is it ok, to do little things for her right now without trying to get her to talk to me and pushing her??