Let's say you look at a woman and say to yourself "ICK she's too tall and she's fat with blue hair. I'll pass." Simply ignore that voice and talk to her. See if there is anything you have in common.

Just remember there is no shame in being shallow. We ALL have our preferences. I try not to be but I'm shallow when it comes to intellect. I've been able to overcome my preference a few times for an extraordinary personality.

Basically we like what we like. The only time I've ever gotten irritated at someone for being shallow is my cousin. According to her a guy has to be at least 6', EXTREMELY fit, dark short hair, have a six pack, either be independently wealthy OR make over $75,000 a year, have his own place, no kids, perfect teeth, a full head of hair, well groomed, no pets, face must be aesthetically pleasing and have a nice car. Then every time we speak she *****es she can't find a man and is lonely. She's lonely because she's too picky and listening to her whine about it peeves me off.