i"m introverted so it is hard for me to meet people... But I do not think I have a problem with intimacy. Once I know someone I find it very easy to be open with them. I shared a lot very quickly with my coworker and he with me... some of those details are what led me to believe he had interest in me. I was very ready to go forward and even to attempt to initiate it. Only the second time in my life I felt like my advances would be received well. Both times--wrong.