I'm not sure but I don't think I repel advances... If I'd been oblivious to them under age 40 (very possible) I think I've been looking for them over the past ten years. The two I've had seemed to have unmistakable signs of interest... I've talked with others, friends and therapy, and they've agreed that the signs I saw were surprising to have been wrong.

I don't believe that you or I repulse people... Except maybe someone closed minded... It is easier for me to believe that depression makes us think that we are repulsive... That seems to be something right out of depressions play book.

Hope for some luck for you elevated soul and to believe in yourself if that is something lacking... For me I have no idea why i'm so loveable yet unloveable and I'm tired of trying to figure that out.