Some of it is that I don't know why I would attribute therapy as helping with some things people list even if I thought I noticed such things. The other is that while the woman has said she hopes I will "honor the work we have done in making sense of some things from my past" (I don't even know what that means - and seriously - the woman talks like that - is it any wonder I get frustrated when I let her talk?) - I did not go to see her to "make sense of some things from my past" nor do I think that has occurred in any way. I do find it useful to tell someone who does not care some things some times, but that is about it for the usefulness of the woman.